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Friday, October 21, 2005
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| Your Personality Profile | 
You are happy, driven, and status conscious.
You want everyone to know how successful you are.
Very logical, you see life as a game of strategy.
A bit of a loner, you prefer to depend on yourself.
You always keep your cool and your composure.
You are a born leader and business person. |
| Your Kissing Purity Score: 74% Pure | 
For you, kissing isn't a casual thing
Lip to lip action makes your heart sing |
| Your Japanese Name Is... | 
Shika Matsudaira |
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- short something -
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Wednesday, October 19, 2005
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as i await for HIM to be finished in your class
i sit here in this room alone
thinking about what you've said
it made me think whta if i have something that i might regret
but then it also made me realize how mature i am today
i have grown so much that now i can say that i have changed to someone better
we used to give "promises" that we both wanted to keep
but is that what i really wanted?
was it something you really wanted?
when we said those things to each other
we are still yound and perhaps we are just being selfish of what we think is right
i understand that right now we are both living separate lives
i must say that i am very much contented with everything
i have the things i want
i have a lot of firends and i have someone very special in my life
he is noyperfect but he made me feel special
he has hurt me several times yet he has proven his worth
it's too early to say that he is the one
coz its really up to him to make him the right one
i am pretty sure that you're also being loved by her
i wish you hapiness and luck with her because you also love her as much as she does
maybe you were able to say those things to me coz you were missing my company
but even though you've said those things, reality wont change that you love her deeply
the message was too long and just goin in circles
the bottomline here is that even though we've parted ways
i am still thankful with what you've done to me
you taught me how to be strong and to grow
so thank you
please dont hold any grudges or anything
im looking forward to be friends with you
again, thank you
*** short something for a friend
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- 8 Ways To Handle An Argument -
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Wednesday, October 12, 2005
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Let's face it, no one is perfect. No matter how hard you try, or how loving and respectful of a couple you are, you are bound to get into a disagreement once in a while. With a few tips though, it doesn't have to be something that can harm your relationship. The next time you feel an argument starting to form keep in mind these 8 ways to handle an argument!
1. Give your partner enough space to voice his or her concerns.
I'm sure you hate it when people interrupt you; give your partner the same respect -- even if you don't agree with what they are saying.
2. Make an extra effort to really understand what you partner is trying to say.
It is very easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know what they are saying, when in fact you may not have a clue. If your partner feels like you understand what they are saying, you'll find a way to end the argument far more quickly.
3. Don't say something you'll regret later.
Always consider your relationship like a glass. It is sturdy, tough, beautiful and clear when taken care of, but if it is mistreated or mishandled it can end up scratched, cracked or even broken. Take care in choosing the words you say when you are in the heat of the moment.
4. Don't bring in past woes.
The past is the past... let it stay there. If you dwell on past occurrences, you'll never find a solution for the future your partner will feel less loved and respected, and you will always feel negatively towards your partner. People make mistakes. Give your partner the chance to recover from them, and encourage and support them when they make the right choices.
5. Learn to compromise.
If you can learn to compromise, you'll find yourself in fewer disagreements. If you don't like something, then agree with your partner to find some middle ground. This also applies the other way. Be willing to come up with alternative solutions for things your partner doesn't like as well!
6. Realize that no matter what you say, you both may not agree on the issue at hand.
An argument is typically started because you want someone to agree with you about something. You think that the other person must not know all the facts, so you begin to explain it to them. The more your partner still disagrees with you, the more upset you usually get. But, if you realize that sometimes it is best to just let yourselves agree to disagree -- you'll show your partner that you not only respect their opinion, but respect their individuality as well. You never know, maybe later on they (or even you!) might change their mind.
7. Make a commitment to talk about the situation until it is handled.
It's far too easy to run off and avoid your partner, or give them the silent treatment. Instead, make a commitment right now to each other to respect each other enough to work it out -- even if it takes all night. Nothing is unsolvable when you are working together to truly find a peaceful resolution.
8. Make your relationship with your partner your first concern when you are in the middle of a disagreement.
This does not mean bend over backwards for them or compromise your integrity. Just keep in mind that the person you are arguing with is your best friend, lover and soul mate. If you both keep that at the forefront of your mind in an argument, it will keep what matters most away from cruel words or intent -- your heart!
Finally, I leave you with one thought on preventing arguments. Let your partner know exactly when something upsets you. I've found that many people tend to not speak up when something bothers them, thinking that it is trivial to mention it. Unfortunately, what happens is after repeated times of not speaking up, some small occurrence happens and it ends up being the straw that broke the camel's back. The other partner, more often than not, has no clue what they are upset about and therefore thinks they are over-reacting. If you find yourself in this situation, deal with each thing as it happens. Don't let things build up until you explode.
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- How To Be A Better Couple...10 steps to enjoying each other better -
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Tuesday, October 11, 2005
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1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn your partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give your gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnight with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so you're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not your fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to express yourself better so that your partner understands what you're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When you stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve yourselves in some shared activities; something both of you enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or just strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If you're spending more time with your friends rather than with your partner, it's a warning sign that you're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, you shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show your love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then, even if you have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows you can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is you love to laugh at. Ask yourself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past. (it's already burried)
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about you and youur ex to your guy, it would just make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that you had with your ex or mention about her in your every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that you saying all this because you are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on your jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If you're gonna go through your partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, you know something is wrong - with you!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads through the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it. (it depends...)
9. Keep your commitments to each other.
If your partner is standing you up all the time and canceling dates and breaking promises, you need to talk! If you're in a relationship, make your partner your priority and don't disappoint them if you can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take you to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises you can't keep. If your partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to you, you may just lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing your feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When you're hurt, say so, and when you're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with your partner, who can you be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
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- 2 years of dating...reminiscing -
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Sunday, October 09, 2005
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yesterday my mom woke me up coz she was asking me if i could go with her at glorietta...she has an appointment at regines...since i do not have a class in the morning i went there with her...while waiting i asked my hair styllist matt if he could trim my hair coz it was quite long already...then the moment i was done with my hair...my was also ready to go...
we went to red ribbon to buy some food for tita nanette coz she is confined at makati med...then we decided to eat our lunch so i could just drop her at the hospital...
then i went to hun's house he was still sleeping so i just waited for him to wake up..at around 3:45 my cousin texted me and told me that we coould get hun's car...i told hun about it...his eyes got big and he smiled at me...he thought i was kidding...so i told him i was serious about it...so he hugged me and gave me a kiss...i can see in his eyes that he was really excited about it...he got up and took a bath...while waiting i used his computer and chatted with my best friend loreine for a while...i was hoping i could see bestfriend jayran as well but then i guess she' busy packing her things co she said she'll be back from the states on monday morning...owell
i was telling loreine that it was officially 2 years when hun and i had our first date...so we are goin to the mall (after we get his car) and eat then watch a movie...just like what we did 2 years ago...when we still in the courting stage...loreine was very happy for me but then my "kamalditahan" was on a high level during that time so i was teasing loreine that she should get a bf...i mean its qtime for her to be happy and do the nasty thing...hahaha...she was laughing her heart out with i've said...then the internet on hun's pc ran out so i got disconnected...i texted loreine that i cant go back and that we'll chat again when i get home...good thing she was also thinking of going offline coz she has to sleep...
at 5pm we went to my cosuin's house and got hun's car...fonz was there (my 4 yrs old cousin)...he was reall chubby and cute...but he was shy coz i haven't seen him for months...but we do talk on the phone and all he can say was for me to buy him a big red car...hun was checking out his car...at around 6 we went to my house and parked his car...we used my car in going to glorietta...
we bought our tickets for the movie transporter 2...i saw ate abby with her friends from global..small world...she knows juju...then we chatted for a while...then we parted ways coz they are about to get inside the movie house...hun and i went to chef d angelo and ate our dinner...then we walked for a while...we went to the havainas store and at happy days...then we went back to the movie house...
the movie was nice...thought the stunts were impossible...its been quite a while since we watched a movie so hun got a little dizy (coz we were sitting on the 5th row near the screen) i saw my friend maj with chris and her sister caren...we were all in the same movie house...maj said that she did not understand the movie so i was teasing her that she cant comprehend it coz she was not that intellegent...hahaha...then she told me that she was brighter than i am...so i bragged about the 4.0 grade that i got from my thesis hahahaha...
then we went back to my house...we got hun's car and gave it a road test...we just went to blue wave at macapagal and then went back to my place...hun was really happy...
before sleeping, i texted him and told him that i was happy spending 2 years of being with him...goin out on a date...watching a movie...eating and just having a good time...then he replied that we've been through a lot of ups and downs and he was happy being with me as well...
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- The problems with GUYS -
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Tuesday, October 04, 2005
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If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from a CONVENT.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;
If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is a GENTLEMEN.
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!! & sooo hard to please!!!!!
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- bright lights festival with BAMBOO -
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Sunday, October 02, 2005
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i was very tired yesterday...i was in school from 8 am till 12 midnight...at around 9:30 am we started to fix the booth (for the signature contest) at around 11 we were finished with the setup so we started to ask people to sign the papers for the signature campaign...we had our own strategy...rache and i stayed at the lobby and asked people to sign the forms...then we would promote the bright lights event and then encourage them to check out the booths of our sponsors like bayantel, blast, chalk, ponds, meralco, jergens, cream silk, alcatel, and more...then at around 4:30 i started counting the number of signatures and we got 557! we won!!! we also won the best booth design...
at 5pm i went to the theater to check out if everything was ok...the place was not yet fixed so rache and i went to the maintenance and security to ask for their help...at 5:45 the students wanted to enter the theater...they do not want to line up...i had no choice but to get their attention so that everything would be in order...i stood up at the registration table and i was practically yelling at them...asking them to line up outside...at 6:30 we allowed them to enter the theater...
at around 8:30 pm i went down to the security office to ask for parking permits for the bands' cars...then i got a permit form for the equipments that they will use...at 9pm bamboo and ira arrived...after 10 minutes vic arrived with the equipments...after 10 minutes nathan arrived...they were ready to play but then they waited for a while til the equipments were ready on the stage...at 9:50 i went up to the theater (together with bamboo, ira, nathan and vic plus 3 security guards)...bamboo asked me how's the crowd and i told him that it was ok...a lot of people are waiting for them to play..then he said really, that's good! then he just smiled at me! at the backstage ira was looking for a pen so i gave him my pen...we couldn't find a paper so we just picked up the scratch we saw on the floor...he gave the paper and pen to bamboo coz he was the one arranging the songs that they'll sing...
i was so lucky coz i was the only student who had an oppurtunity to be with them the whole night .. i had a picture with bamboo and ira too! hahaha...after their performance i accompanied them back to their cars and assisted them with the checking of their equipments...
  
after the event, the officers, asst officers together with ms mel and sir dan, we went to starbucks and had a little chit chat...we were all happy coz the day was a success..though we encountered some problems...the event turned out well.....
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